People of different genders would display different sets of body languages. This is because of the fact that male and female are intrinsically different. They differ in terms of mindsets and biological functions. However, understanding the message behind the spoken words is important in order to have meaningful relationship with each other.
As much as guys ought to know the basics of female body language to get an idea of what their girls like, women should also know the basics of male body language to interpret the unspoken messages sent by their guys. However, this does not mean that learning this particular language is only exclusive to women. Men should also know about these things in order to send the right signals to other people especially their loved ones. Besides, learning these things will also enable them to understand other men and their selves better. In effect, they would be better individuals who are aware and sensitive to the actions of the people around them.
How to be an Alpha Male?
An alpha male is basically a guy that stands out above the rest. They are usually taller compared with the other guys in town. They are not necessarily handsome or good-looking but there is something in them that intimidate other males and make women fall for them. So, what’s with these alpha males that make them look so powerful?
The answer to the question above is simple. Alpha males look powerful because they have a certain air of confidence about them. They execute confidence in a lot of ways. First, they display good posture. They put their shoulders back and hold their heads up without actually looking too stiff. Their good posture makes them look calm and contented.
Second, Alpha males are likely to walk with poise. With the proper posture, they would be able to walk gracefully that the people around them can’t help but notice it. They don’t restrict their arms from swaying. Instead, they just let them move freely as they walk.
Third, they usually have a larger space whether they’re sitting or standing. Humans and even animals provide themselves personal spaces. These spaces serve as an area of defense for them. When someone is too close with a person, that someone is said to be invading the other person’s personal space. In the alpha males case though, because they stand out in the crowd and many guys feel inferior with their presence, no one dare to invade their personal space.
Finally, alpha males are really confident people. They love everything about themselves. Whether they are really handsome or not, they are just happy being themselves. They just act normal and drop any pretenses. They are not likely to imitate another person’s actions because for them, there’s no need for it because they were born superior above the rest.
What are the signals that he’s into a girl?
Non-verbal communication plays a very important role especially in dating and relationships. Women want to feel secured and loved. They want a man to pursue them and not the other way around. They also tend to be good in reading body language. Because of this, the right signals should be sent to them. Many might be wondering now, what are the male body language indicators that show men’s attraction towards the opposite sex?
Some of the ways that guys do whether in a conscious or subconscious manner to show how they feel about girls are the following. First, honest males move their eyes towards the left during interrogations. Their eyes move towards the left direction because they are using the left side of their brain in order to remember facts. On the other hand, moving their eyes towards the right can indicate that they are not being honest about answering the question. This is because they will just be figuring out what the correct answers are supposed to be as they are using their right side of the brain in imagining things. It is important to know small things like these as they can help you figure out the real intentions of a man.
Second, guys lean closer to the person they are talking to if they are interested in the topic. This can also mean that they are amused or they are simply having a good time and enjoying conversations with the other person. Guys should be reminded though not to lean too close to the other person as this might be an implication of invasion of the other person’s personal space.
Third, guys maintain eye contact when talking to a person because of two reasons. It’s either they are just plain interested with what the other person is saying or they are attracted to that person. The main difference between the two is that in the second scenario, guys tend to couple their consistent eye contact with simultaneous smiling throughout the conversation.
Finally, guys must do the first, second and third acts of male body language flirting mentioned above instantaneously in order to show their affection towards women. Women should also have the idea about these things because guys tend to be less vocal than women are. More often than not, they are likely to make a woman feel special instead of telling this woman straight to her face how special she is to them.